Reparations: Do We Get It Now?

 

 

With all the atrocities and miscarriages of justice African Americans have complained and marched about from Rodney King to Katrina to Jena Louisiana, I still don’t think we get it.  We think we live in a place other than an America that kidnapped and enslaved us for centuries and has still not admitted that the heinousness of their acts were crimes against humanity genocide and unjustified and that has yet to apologize for them. We also live in an America that has apologized for the internment camps during World War II and called them a result of "...race prejudice, war hysteria, and a failure of political leadership" and paid reparations to surviving internees. As of October 11th the U.S. House Foreign Affairs Committee passed a resolution that labeled the Ottoman Empire’s World War I massacre of Armenians as “genocide.”  In international law a crime against humanity is an act of persecution or any large scale atrocities against a body of people, and it’s the highest level of criminal offenses. Yet to this day the largest known persecution and genocide against any people of any ethnicity has been against us and there has not been one single solitary act carried out to address it.

            Do we get it yet? Our genocide is so wide spread and so deeply entrenched in what is called “the progress of the world” that taking responsibility and paying reparations for it would put a black eye on the morality of the world as well as change the balance of its economic power. Spain, Holland, Denmark, France, and Great Britain would have to ante up. Not to mention the Vatican that said enslaving Africans was spiritually alright and who grew wealthy off African enslavement. In 1998 the Vatican said “...As far as possible, reparation should erase all the consequences of the illicit action and restore things to the way they would most probably be if that action had not occurred. When such a restoration is not possible, reparation should be made through compensation (equivalent reparation)." That means we would get back Africa, the most mineral rich continent on the planet, or its equivalent and the monetary value of 500 years of mass slaughter and kidnapping. Let’s quit fooling ourselves, reparations aren’t ever coming in the form of a willing or legislative act. At most what we should expect is remuneration, a monetary payment that would act as punitive damages for our suffering.

            We are continually ignored and denied the dignity of an apology justice and a returning of what was taken from us because morally politically socially and economically it would condemn everyone who would took part in them, switch the locus of global control to our favor, and totally destroy the ethical and moral high ground that the beneficiaries of these crimes claim as a basis for their position in the today’s existence. If at any point the people of the world acknowledge our enslavement for what is was it automatically acknowledges their guilt and blatant disregard for truth and justice. They have to maintain the idea of us being a mongrel people, minimize our contributions, and globally portray us as less-than to maintain their piece of mind.

 

Do we get it now?

 

 

We can't control our children?

For those of us who believe we can’t control our children, congratulations on giving up our children and speak for yourself. Children are totally at the mercy of adults. Everything they see, experience, hear, and have access to is controlled by adults, especially in a capitalistic society which does not recognize children as full participating members until they are 21 years old. Unless there are adults who cop out and expose children to age inappropriate stimuli and situations because “the child is going to experience it anyway” a child’s interactions with the world can be simple and safe. In 99.9 percent of the instances where a child breaks the rules you can find an adult who helped them do it.

            My mother and father controlled almost every move I made. They monitored and limited what I could watch and listen to and where I could go. If I was not in voice distance I had to let them know where I was going. If I was going to a friend’s house it would have to be a friend whose parents my mother had met, that she had visited before, and that had a phone number. No exceptions. If I went to the store I had a time limit. My room was searched sporadically and I was not allowed to bring home anything that was not bought for me by my parents. One day a friend and I switched jackets and my mother made me walk to his house to return it and get mine. She was the final word on everything from clothes to hairstyles. My father reinforced everything my mother said and of course added his own set of rules. Both of them let me know that privacy and autonomy was not an option until I was taking care of myself and outside of their houses. They also let me know I would fear God or meet him – NO EXCEPTIONS!            

            I concede that children who steal are the exceptions to the rule, but barring blatant theft all inappropriate behavior is aided by adults. Children smoke because adults buy and sell them cigarettes. Children drink because adults buy and sell them alcohol. Children dress scantily because adults buy them scanty clothes and give them money and allow them to buy scanty clothes. Children watch inappropriate television programs because adults give them access to the televisions and channels with the inappropriate content. They listen to garbage music because adults buy them garbage music and give them money and allow them to buy garbage music. Barring theft there is no getting around adults. Everything a child has used to from drugs to weapons has been manufactured and distributed by an adult. Even children who steal have been exposed to what they stole before they stole it by an adult.

            If the community participated in the raising of all children there would be no outlets or safe spaces for negative behavior. We wouldn’t have children terrorizing neighborhoods or schools. As for the children I bring into this world, they will be monitored and controlled and any adult who prescribes to the “the child is going to experience it anyway” attitude will be promptly removed from access to them and replaced with an adult who has a spine and sense of responsibility. Lastly, for all those who think my views on parenting are extreme or will alienate children I say what I said to a girl who was a resident of a group home that I was working at, the way your parents raised you got in a group home and the way my parents raised me has me working in one and making money off of what your parents didn’t do. The End.

 

Gangs and Irreverent Children of Color: The False Mythology

I’ve heard many people speak on the gang problem and black on black crime that claim our children are out of control, and worst yet are uncontrollable. Words like epidemic, pandemic, and genocide are thrown out so much that the words are probably tired from overuse. The tragedy of the destruction of lives and community is indisputable, the sorrow of those who have to live through it is immeasurable, and my spirit aches and moans for lack of words and adequate expression; however, I do not share the belief that our children are out of control or are uncontrollable. Our children are making harsh decisions, decisions that they don’t have the experience or understanding to proficiently make, based on the situations they are in and know what they are doing. They understand that for their every action there will be a reaction. Sadly to say our neighborhoods are the places of least resistance and least costly reactions to their inappropriate behaviors so our neighborhoods become the ground zeros for those behaviors.     

            The biggest myth in the world is that of uncontrollable gangs and irreverent children. When anyone uses these terms there stands a person who isn’t willing to reach deep enough into the bags of compassion wisdom and/or whoop-ass to change their conditions. So instead of taking responsibility for their actions they claim to be helpless victims of tyrannical children. Lies and b.s. is all that is. Let’s look at Oakland California, a place where 632 murders took place between the years of 2001 – 2006. I would imagine the three overused words would be used to describe this situation and used repeatedly in any discussions to drive the point home. But then we would look at Piedmont California, a city located in the middle of Oakland. When I say the middle I mean if Oakland was a doughnut Piedmont would be the doughnut hole. You can not get to it with out going through Oakland. The number of murders that took place there between 2001-2006....zero. That’s not a misprint, zero murders took place. How could people who were out of control and were uncontrollable kill 632 times and never once do it in the very center of their city?  Are the murderers afraid they will fall off the edge of Oakland? Are there force fields or great walls separating them? Why no murders in Piedmont?

            Here comes the whammy. There are no murders there for a number of reasons but the main ones are, they are neither tolerated nor accepted. No place is murder free forever but there are places where you rarely if ever have murders and that’s because it is affluent and rich people shop rather than shoot and/or it is known that the price to pay for “disturbing the peace” will be served swiftly with extreme malice and with no apologies. Piedmont is 79% white and the mean income is $134,270. Oakland is 31% white and the mean income is $40,000.  The invisible line is drawn, much like the train tracks that separated rich neighborhoods from poor neighborhoods, and based on your income, color, and social status you knew which side to be on. These fearless children are afraid. They just aren’t afraid of us. Piedmont is not an anomaly. There are Piedmonts in every state in America. The lines are just as distinct and just as defined. Our children don’t go there because they can’t; mentally they are bent on self-preservation and understand that that preservation is not likely to happen if they act up in Piedmont.          

            Maybe it’s time we stopped making excuses and being afraid of our children and make them afraid of us. Not in the Plantation owner enslaved African way, but in the, I love you and will save you from everyone including yourself way. The, you will fear God or meet God way. Disrespect and ignorance are bought cheap and tolerated to the point of nausea in our neighborhoods. Compassion, wisdom, and whoop-ass should be the most used words in our conversation. When we create options instead of excuses and raise the cost of disturbing our peace to a price our children aren’t willing to pay then we will be able to occupy our time talking about building life instead of struggling to maintain it.

 

 

The Almighty Media

All hail the Almighty Media! It seems the general belief is, the media is influencing the people of the world and shaping how they view events, themselves, and their lives, and there is nothing people can do to stop it. In clinical terms this is called projection. It’s where a person projects blame on something or someone to escape taking responsibility for their actions. The media is not almighty. Mass Media is based on the dissemination of words, pictures, or sounds to an observing audience. The key word in the last sentence is “observing.” Without a willing observer the media becomes the tree that falls in the woods when no one is there and everyone asks does it make a sound. Of course it makes a sound but if no one hears it, no one really cares? We care about what media says because we pay attention to what it says. Media affects us because we make ourselves available to its influences and lies. The power to control the influence of media is not only in controlling what it delivers, but it is also in being able to ignore what it saying.

            Don’t overlook the power of ignoring. If we stopped buying newspapers and magazines that habitually practiced yellow journalism and spin doctoring then they cease to be an influence. If we turn off TV and radio programs that spread lies and cover-ups then they cease to be an influence. For anything to influence us it first has to get our attention and then our consideration. The power to be influenced lies totally on the person who media is attempting to reach. Look at the Amish. With all of the dependence on modern technology, processed foods, pop culture, and mass media the Amish lifestyle has remained intact. You don’t see little Amish boys sagging or little Amish girls hoochifying dresses or going broke buying designer clothes. Because the Amish filter what comes into their communities and thusly filter what comes into their lives. With that filtering they limit the influence that all media has on them.  And believe you me, if the technological gods go crazy and this worldwide web crashes we will be running to them to help us survive, because without all our modern amenities most of us wouldn’t last a month.  It seems there are some benefits to ignoring things.

            What media does is a form of poisoning and for any poison to affect you it has to get inside you. We get poisoned so often because we are quick to swallow before inspecting what we are eating. In this age of the worldwide web we have access to media from around the world. The least we could do is gather information from different sources and compare what they are saying and dig for the truth instead of expecting it to be hand delivered to us. I imagine it’s really easy to tune-in, veg out, and accept everything one sees hears and reads as the truth. I also imagine it is really easy to manipulate and control people who do that; which, explains why most Americans are for prolonging a war in a place they can’t find on a map and that they know absolutely nothing about. Blame the media all you want but it is stupid people not stupid reporters that make the world a worst place to live. It is not the idiot box, but the idiot who can be controlled by a box that needs to be dealt with. Live free or die stupid, it’s your choice.